We canât live a life for them but at the same time we cant come over them. Whatever we do whether it is good or bad people are going to talk behind us . The only way is to ignore them and without putting their words into our mind . We will be thinking about their thoughts for the full day and they will be just enjoying their lifes. We need to be more self confident in front of them.
Actually thereâs no pressure if one creates certain boundaries and principles in life. Many are just trying to fit in, rather than standing out. Everyone is just acquiring a bunch of people in their life to feel validated without any real and meaningful contributions provided by others. People donât know how to stay strong alone in todayâs time and everybody is worried about feeling left out. One can always embrace solitude and still be an expert having many people in the network. To belong to a certain group, we donât have to leave behind our individuality and put up an image of someone who we are not in real. Because, this definitely doesnât attract the right tribe meant for us, rather it keeps on attracting the wrong people into the life and for momentary validations, the anxiety keeps building up to retain that bar that has already been set in a wrong way. Why do hard work for something as fleeting as it is, rather we can actually take time to find a tribe who can understand us, support us, can provide their hands to uplift when the whole world stands against, as thatâs a true acknowledgement of who we are.
We can still enjoy Birthday parties, outfits, gadgets this will really benefit us when we enjoy with our family.