Is it only me or anyone notice that the relationship between non medico and medico people generally doesn’t work?
I might be wrong but what you think might be the reason/s ?
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Sometimes it really feels like non-medico people just don’t get the demands of our field, they see our long hours or dedication as “too much” or unnecessary. It’s hard when someone can’t fully understand the passion and pressure that comes with being in healthcare.
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As a medico’s job is very demanding and a large part of the day is dedicated to the job, personal life does end up taking a hit.
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It’s not that medico vs non-medico won’t work — but it takes more patience, respect for one another, and a solid comprehension of one another’s universe.
Compatibility is not solely about career — but about lifestyle expectations, emotional maturity, and common priorities
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Yes , its hard sometimes
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Hmm i think doctor only choose doctor because both of them are busy in their work and understands each other better
If there is understanding and acceptance about each others professional lives then somewhere it might get work, otherwise yes it can be difficult to manage.
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Now a days, relationships are only draining the persons, if one has high and reputable job , the other one will show toxicity and will always try to demotivate you by all that tactics
Reality: we are busy in our healthcare professions and never understand that we are the backup for them.
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Yes! Relationships between medico and non-medico individuals can be challenging, but not impossible. Understanding and communication are key to every successful relationship. To understand your partner’s work life is vital!
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Maybe because they don’t get much time for their personal life.
For a medical person it will be difficult to get work life balance .
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I know a engineer guy who married a gynaec who is 24/7 busy in hospital. He takes good care of their 2 kids and manages the house. He has taken WFH and less projects since the kids are small. So, that couple is an inspiration for us
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Medicos have long hours, emotional exhaustion, and unpredictable schedules, which can be hard for non-medicos to fully understand or adapt to.
It’s not about profession, though mutual respect, communication, and empathy matter more than the degrees.
You are mistaken, even medico medico partners don’t work .
I think this is because of the culture of a medical college… medical culture is totally different from any other college.
In Long distance relationship there is much misunderstandings… because medicos have less time so due to lack of time there is communication gap and relationships break.
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May be they lose the ‘prescripton’ of following some rules, thus ending in such a situation. Just thinking! 
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So true! Medico life is hectic—long hours, stress, less time. It’s hard for non-medicos to fully understand. Needs extra patience and effort. 
I have seen them otherwise! They actually go on very well with each other, at least in my experience.
It is mostly due to the lifestyle we medico’s live and due to how demanding our career is
That’s so nice of him
A smooth relationship can be expected if there is a good understanding and respect towards each other’s profession.
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