Right from our childhood, we are always taught to be perfect. This is a good tradition when followed within limits; it helps us identify what is right and what is not. However, when this expectation becomes extreme, young children begin to question their self-worth, whether it is their capabilities or their talents.
These doubts are commonly reflected in classrooms, where students shy away from asking doubts or speaking up. And what happens next? Those doubts are never solved. The confusion remains and slowly creates more chaos in learning.
As Confucius said, “A person who asks a question remains a fool for two minutes, but the one who does not remain a fool for life.”
Understanding one simple concept helped me build the courage to speak and ask doubts. When I did, my teachers never hesitated to solve them, but even if yours do, remember this: asking a doubt is not a fault. Not being able to answer and suppressing someone for asking is.
Hence, build that courage. Practice it at home, among friends, in school, college, conferences, and the workplace and use it to build your identity.
Also, do let us know which one incidence has helped you build that courage to ask questions?
MBH/AB
