I know personality and attitude are the most important and long lasting factors to look at, but externally, what do you notice immediately in a person that impresses you? Is it their skin, how they dress, their hair, shoes, or maybe how they smell?
For me personally, I always look at a person’s hands and feet- they tell a lot about their hygiene! And honestly, I am instantly impressed if someone smells good.
Curious to know what you all notice first, no matter the gender. Let’s hear it …
i notice the eye gesture in a person. By observing the eye gesture we can easily get to know how the confident is that person when speaking with us.
For me, it’s definitely how someone carries themselves their posture, eye contact, and smile. These are the first few things I notice
This reply doesn’t belong here I believe @prasanthkumar
How they present themselves, well dressed or not
Agree with you
I personally get impress by the dressing sense and hairs of the person. But when I talk to them then it totally depends upon the level of connection I feel with them. Matching your vibes with them is equally important at later stage of first appearance.
Generally it depends on how person talk and approach.
Dressing sense
It shows a lot about how a person carries themselves
Great question! @ShyamaliPathak
For me, it’s the overall vibe—how someone carries themselves, their energy and especially their smile. But I won’t lie, good hygiene stands out instantly. Clean hands, neat nails and a fresh scent. That’s an instant win, no matter the gender.
Thats soo true. You and me have the same vibes 
For me, the first thing I notice is someone’s smile it says a lot about their warmth and energy. And honestly, the way they talk matters even more. I feel like I can understand a person’s attitude and mindset just by talking to them for 2 minutes. Their tone, the words they choose, how they respond it all shows their nature without even trying.
Of course, neatness and hygiene also catch my eye, but for me, that genuine vibe someone gives through their smile and words stays longer than looks.
For me, how they talk matters more than their gestures. One who knows how to talk respectfully is the first thing I notice.
They way they communicate, their smile and their attitude this are the three things I noticed in a person when I meet them
I look for a genuine smile and those who talk nicely.
The first thing I often notice in a person externally is how they hold themselves like in terms of their their posture, the softness/urgency in their pace, and most importantly the way their eyes move when they listen/speak. Internally, I notice how they hold space for others like their ability to listen without interrupting, to stay present without demanding, and most importantly how they respond to discomfort/difference along with their emotional presence. I mostly look at how deep they can feel and how gently they can exist around others.
I will notice how they speak,behave with me and with others too. I will observe there aura towards me if it’s postive i will always ready to mingle with him if i get any negative vibes i cut off
I notice their foot not the footware my grandma used to say if you want to about a person look at his feets you will get to know way better then they say