The ability to pay attention to the emotional state of mind of my near and dear ones and acting accordingly to ease their mind.
1.I used to give my time my friends and family which is precious for a medical professional to share but still whatever the situation is,I always be the first to help and support my surroundings sometimes outside my surroundings too.
2.I don’t have ego or jealousy for anybody so I used to share even the things which is going to uplift my career like job opportunities with my friends.
3.I am good at academics but still I skipped the exam to take care of my mother in hospital,I sacrificed my 1 year of academic for my parents.
Studying hard and trying harder everyday not to fail. Yet people only notice your flaws .
Every day we face a “no appreciation day”, whether it is me being perfectly capable of doing household chores all alone, with me going to college as well. Being strong every day to face life-sized challenges. I cook, I design clothes, I am a good salesperson, I help people apply for passports, licenses, ITR, and property certificates, yet I don’t make money or get appreciated for this. I survived the War all alone, no friends, no money, less food in a country where I am doubted constantly, just because my beloved Indians have behaved horribly in those places. From cold mornings to brutally cold nights, I survived to fulfill my father’s dream (that’s what people say) of becoming a doctor. Yet I am not appreciated for my hardship, my dedication towards my goal, without giving up, even when I wanted to. Now I am being told that I am not good enough.
That was something… because really emotional patients is the strongest one to make us with our own perspective. Acquring knowledge is essential through learning. Understanding of what we obtained from the knowledge need mental health, concentration and disciplines. Keep on learing and obtain the knowledge regarding that is quite powerful.
My love and care for my family and friends are my most unique quality, which is the least appreciated and nobody wants. They all consider it only as a duty. According to me, being loved, cared for, and considered is the most cherished thing. So now I have learned to love myself, and sometimes I feel self-love is the best love.
Went through the hardest phase of my life yet I had been very patient ,sincere and managed to fullfill all the duties at my college and home yet no one noticed acknowledged while I acknowledge everyone ‘ s effort
Trying my best even when things were hard… Still getting compared with people who had it easily
I faced very hard situations alone ,even I didnt share to my parents and family .After facing of all the that struggles again I buildup myself very strong and confident .So I’m proud of me
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Proud of you girl. hope your mom gets well soon.
Pretending that everything is ok but dying inside because I dont wanna stress my loved ones
Loving even when it is hard to love somebody.
I love reading , but my reading habit is not appreciated by people surrounding me
Intuitively sense the emotions of a person talking next to me
I am very good at my clinical skills and in patient care but I think it got less recognition than I expected
Sometimes things work out when you least expect them to happen. Have faith and patience
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I am proud of my ability to keep going and stay hopeful, even when things get tough. It’s a quiet strength, but it reminds me that resilience is its own kind of success.
Agreed with you completely. We all are living such a life where everyone is caring about the scores we got, the kind of job we are getting, the salary, etc. Nobody is really yet caring about whether we are okay or not. Talking about mental health in Indian families is just hearing back a lecture about how they handled more pressure and stress than us. Ohh wait, stress? Whats that is what Indian parents says!
As a mental health practitioner, i am blessed the skills of active listening deeply to unspoken emotions. I noticed in my therapy room, always i do pause to listen, nodding head as understood, changing expression as per the client silent cries, but it not applaud. Yet, the silent speakable responses helps client to heard, feel, seen and safer. It is the invisible part of healing to many, but deeply transformative for those who experienced it.
This is very good topics. I don’t think it does not matter in modern era. Millennials and GenZ are not bother about if someone is clapping for their achievements or not. I believe we should adapt satisfied and happy life living better than successful life. Because our success is measured by others, but our satisfaction is measured by our own soul, mind and heart.
This is what happens in life sometimes we win sometimes we loose. It depends on the way we take the situation