No matter how much support or guidance you get from others, real change starts when you decide to show up for yourself even on the days you don’t feel like it.
You’re the one who knows your pain, your dreams, your limits and also your power.
So if you’re waiting for a sign, a person, or a perfect moment this is it.
Take the first step, even if it’s small.
You don’t need to be fearless. You just need to be willing.
That’s true. You are the one who knows best for yourself.
Yes , absolutely correct because I think the Gudience from any person or well wisher will only work if we are willing to implement it and we know ourselves better than anyone else
Yes its true.
Very beautifully crafted post. Absolutely, it’s always self-potential and self-belief that makes us win over the biggest obstacles/battles of life. Our loved and closed ones can give us advices, we can get knowledge from enormous resources in today’s time; but still at the end it’s all about when we are willing to wake up and get going. Life will stay as a puzzle always and it is never going to be perfect and completely settling for anyone. So, it is better to stay ready always for a journey that can teach us adaptation instead of perfection. All the changes or solutions that we mostly search at the exterior actually is sitting within us always just waiting for that moment when we can pause and look there with a moment of awareness and strength. All the changes begin within and then it gets reflected in our outer world and sometimes, when it’s not reflecting, we should learn to keep going ahead holding that reflection silently because the day of victory comes always. The earth is spherical and moments in life are fleeting and we all will surely get out of any uncomfortable place we are in today.
Yes, it’s so true.
Self-confidence and self-love are the biggest achievements we can have in life. At the end of the day, you are the only one who truly understands what you’ve been through — your thoughts, your pain, your dreams. Yes, maybe you’ve made mistakes, but only you know the situation and emotions behind them. Sadly, people often just point at mistakes — not the feelings behind them. That’s why self-support, love, and care are not just important… they’re everything.
So don’t compare yourself with others — you’re the best in your own way.
thank you mam
I agree! As they say, you are your own biggest enemy, so real change begins with you
We always keep waiting for something magical to happen , someone to change our life and always blame it on others when we couldn’t do what we wanted to.
We forget that it’s we who knows what we want to be not others , we who could fix our lives
so start showing up for yourself coz no one will until you do!!
yes, so true.
Yeah, our decisions make what we are and we are the ones responsible for who are going to become.
Absolutely true, Nobody can feel the same what’s inside us. We have to fight for our dreams, recover from our pain, set boundaries and limits, and empower ourselves.
Yeah, this resonates. Basically, you gotta do the work yourself. Sure, support’s great, but the real change happens when you decide to stick with it, even when it sucks and you don’t feel like it. It’s often not about making big moves, just showing up a little bit each day. That’s where you start to grow. Thanks for the reminder, I needed to hear this today.
Healing truly starts from within. No matter how much love or support others offer, nothing changes until we decide to show up for ourselves.
This is such a great motivation, much needed today
This is very true. Until you can not make efforts or do something you can’t do anything irrespective of guidance and motivators.
No matter how much help or advice others give you, real change begins when you choose to be there for yourself, even on tough days. You understand your pain, your dreams, your limits, and your strength better than anyone. If you’ve been waiting for a sign or the right time, this is it. Start now, even if it is just a small step.
Yes it is completely true cause I have helped many of my friends but when I needed them nowhere was there for me and now I regret that I didn’t make any trustworthy friend of mine to get me out from hard situation like those.
Now I also tries not to offer and do help to them,I know it is harsh but I had been through lot .
Beautifully said. Real growth begins the moment we stop waiting and start choosing ourselves especially on tough days. Even the tiniest step counts because it means you’re moving forward. We all fall, but showing up for yourself every day is how change truly begins.
brother not every friends are same, There is difference in trust depending on someone. I am not saying you are right but friends always in critical situations and help not by money there presence will be there is impacts. I think judging from money is not good.
