In todays world its became impossible to not compare ourselves with others. Social medias, acheivements, appearance, lifestyles, everthing around us constantly pushes us to doubt ourself.
Comparison begins quietly , it starts with the thoughts like Why am I not like them? or They are doing better than me.
Over the time this develops into doubting yourself in every situation, degrading your own strength. But self acceptance helps you to build yourself strong and recognize your worth while you grow.
Comparing your 1rst chapter with someone else 20 th chapter makes no sense,
Everyone starts from 0 they grow , they work hard, they are consistent No two journey are meant to look the same.
Comparing yourself with others stops you from growing , stops you from exploring yourself, stops you from taking care of yourself,You will start to force yourself to do things that are out of hands. Forcing and being harsh on yourself never makes any progress.
Comparison focuses on what you lack, but
Self-acceptance just focuses on what you have and what you can become.
Growth comes from beleiving that you are already enough and still choose to improve.
Always choose peace over pressure.
Stop worrying about others , live your life to the fullest, your happiness matters at the end.
Be the better version of yourself not others , getting inspired by others is fine but stop comparing yourself with others.YOU ARE UNIQUE!!!
What do remind yourself so you don’t compare your progress with others ?
MBH/PS