Mr. John 45 years old man, admitted for a major abdominal surgery following months of severe pain and multiple hospital visits. Although the surgery was medically straightforward, John was emotionally overwhelmed due to fearful of complications or after effects, anxious about being away from his family, and silently battling the negative belief that he might not survive after the surgical interventions.
On the morning of the surgery, the surgeon, noticed John trembling his hands and distant gaze. Instead of starting the routine of pre-operative checklist, doctor pulled a chair beside him and spoke softly, âHi John, I can see you are tensed and worried. Tell me what is scaring you the most.â
Doctor voices broke his silence. He confessed his fear of not waking up, of leaving his children behind, and of feeling âtoo weakâ to face another setback. Doctor listened without interrupting, then gently placed hand on his arm and said, âYour fears are real, and you do not have to hide them. But you are not alone. We are here with you in every step. You are stronger than you think, and we are going to get you through this safely. Doctor educated the surgical plan in clear, reassuring language and encouraged him to meet the anaesthesia team so he would know the faces caring for him. Before leaving, doctor told him, âI will be right here when you wake up. Something shifted in Jons mind, his heartbeat steadied, his breathing calmed, and he smiled faintly, something he had not done in days. The surgery went well, but what John remembered most was not the clinical success - it was the moment doctor acknowledged his fear and replaced it with hope. Throughout recovery, he shared with nurses, âDoctor words gave me courage before the operation even started. It felt like doctor carried half my fear for me.â
That is all a patient needs, someone to listen to them, tell them exactly whatâs the issue with them and whatâs the treatment plan thatâll help them come out of their illness. Empathy, knowledge and skills makes the backbone of our profession. With even one missing, we can loose the trust of patient and sometimes might even end up loosing a life. So I always prioritise in listening to my patients, acknowledging their emotions and provide them the information, support & care that they deserve.
This story is a beautiful reminder that healing begins long before the operation. The surgeon did more than prepare Johnâs body. They cared for his mind and heart. Sometimes a calm voice, a listening ear and a simple promise of âyou are not aloneâ can reduce fear more than any medication.
True portrayal of how healing begins much before a surgery! It is in a moment of patient listening, empathetic understanding, and genuine connection that wellness is found. Sometimes, all one needs is to feel seen, heard, and safe. In my practice, Iâve learned that when we take a few moments to listen and reassure, fear turns into trust, and what else do we need for a stable and robust doctor-patient relationship?
This is how a âtruly educatedâ doctor and/or healthcare provider should deal with patients so that the treatment may go well, patient may get benefitted and the doctor him/her-self may get recognition for his/her work.
A very important message for everyone who works in healthcare; to be mindful of patientsâ anxieties and making sure that, first and foremost, we reassure them and ease their worries as much as we can.
All medical treatments can be overwhelming for patients, whether itâs a simple vaccination or a major surgery. Kind words play a very important role in providing comfort. A gentle smile, a few reassuring words, or even a comforting pat on the shoulder can help ease their stress. Therefore, it is the duty of healthcare professionals to offer mental and emotional support along with physical care.
What a stirring tale! It exquisitely demonstrates that healing involves more than just surgical accuracyâit also involves empathy and emotional connection. Words can be just as healing as medicine, as demonstrated by the doctorâs ability to transform fear into strength. Resilience, composure, and trust are all enhanced by emotional support. Are clinical skills and empathy training equally important for doctors? What effect do you think these human moments have on healing?