Hostel Life Unspoken Words

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:hospital: Hostel Life Unspoken words

Hostels are loud, crowded, full of people…
Yet so many medical students say:
“I’ve never felt more alone.”

In a place where friendships are expected to bloom, you may face:
Superficial bonds built on convenience, not care
Peer pressure to “fit in” at the cost of your peace
People who only show up during exams or for notes
Smiling faces that gossip behind your back

It’s okay to feel disappointed, isolated, or emotionally distant—even when you’re surrounded by others.
You’re not being dramatic. You’re just human.

:brain: Here’s what helps:
Protect your peace—not everyone deserves access to you
Build your own circle slowly, not out of urgency
Seek connection outside your hostel block—clubs, online, family
Be okay with being alone without feeling lonely

:police_car_light: And if the emptiness starts affecting your mental health, talk to someone. Friend. Mentor. Counselor.
Because you don’t have to figure it out alone.

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Yess, in hostel people come from different household with their own rule and try to imply them on others, whivh is not so nice and cause disagreement among roomates and also friends

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I have never experience a hostel life till now, but I can feel your words.

In my opinion, it is better to adopt the life of being in solitude instead of loneliness. I know it will be difficult but it is the best solution to survive even in life ahead of the hostels. Be your own friend.

Instead of knowing the fact that people are approaching you for their own benefits, help me whatever you can. Build your own small happy world.

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But like gathering up all these moments which a spontaneous, ridiculous and full of shared joy i love the overall experience

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Yes as we enters into a virtual life where the problem comes with solution

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This is a very crucial and valid take on hostels, not everyone is truly your friend and not everyone stays and that is completely okay, you are better off making worthwhile friends in your own time rather than rushing the bonding process just to avoid loneliness.

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Yes we really enjoy ,study ,share our sorrows and happiness with our room mates and eventually they become our family.

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It’s difficult to start a new life in hostel at the start but after some time you will feel so free

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Very well said.

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I never experienced hostel life but after reading this post i can come to know the hostel life . Every one from differ places and different culture’s . Helps to learn different languages ,initially it is difficult to survive later adopt the environment