# The silent wounds of "Narcissistic Abuse"!!
**URL:** https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647
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**Created:** [August 3, 2025, 5:26am UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647 "2025-08-03T05:26:24Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 3, 2025, 5:26am UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/1 "2025-08-03T05:26:24Z")
**Do you know what narcissism really is?**
đ It is not just arrogance or selfishness. Narcissistic abuse involves **manipulation, gaslighting, control, and emotional cruelty** , the victim may not even realize they are being abused until deep damage is already done.
đVictims who endure this abuse for years often suffer from **deep psychological and emotional scars** that continue long after the abuse ends.
Here are 5 powerful long-term effects of narcissistic abuse:
**1. Low Self-Esteem**
Narcissists are experts at **belittling** , **criticizing** , and **undermining confidence**. Victims may:
- Constantly question their worth,
- Fear making mistakes
- Doubt their own abilities and decisions
đȘOver time, this leads to a **shattered self-image** and deep-rooted insecurity.
**2. Difficulty Forming Healthy Relationships**
Narcissistic abuse can **crush a personâs ability to trust**. Victims often:
- Struggle to open up to others
- Feel unsure of themselves in social settings
- Have difficulty setting and maintaining boundaries
- Experience long-term communication challenges
đȘ This can lead to a painful cycle of **isolation and emotional distance** , even in safe relationships.
**3. Mental Health Struggles**
- **Anxiety** , **Depression** , **Outburts of anger**
- **Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)**
- Emotional instability from **mood swings** to **emotional numbness**
đȘ Narcissistic abuse rewires the brainâs response to stress and emotion, often leaving lasting trauma.
**4. Physical Health Deterioration**
Yes, narcissistic abuse impacts the **body** , too. Victims may experience:
- Chronic **headaches** , **muscle tension** , or **digestive issues**
- **Sleep problems** like insomnia or nightmares
- Unhealthy coping mechanisms: overeating, smoking, alcohol, or drug use
- Neglect of self-care or regular medical needs
đȘ Stress hormones are constantly triggered, keeping the body in survival mode.
**5. Life Functioning and Identity Crisis**
In more severe cases, victims may find it difficult to **manage everyday life** :
- Struggle to hold a job due to low confidence or anxiety
- Difficulty finding joy in hobbies, work, or relationships
- Feel disconnected from their own identity
- Experience intense **isolation** , even leading to **suicidal thoughts**
**Have you ever experienced something like this?**
Or do you know someone who has gone through narcissistic abuse? Share your thoughts!
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### Author:  [@DrSuneeti-Yemberi](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/DrSuneeti-Yemberi)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 11:34am UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/2 "2025-08-04T11:34:10Z")
Iâve seen patients going through it.
Itâs a hard time for them getting back to the original life.
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 1:33pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/4 "2025-08-04T13:33:55Z")
yes, right!
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### Author:  [@Heenakoushar](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/Heenakoushar)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 1:39pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/5 "2025-08-04T13:39:35Z")
intresting and informative
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### Author:  [@caryn](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/caryn)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 2:21pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/6 "2025-08-04T14:21:20Z")
I think we have all experienced some form of narcissistic abuse and maybe even exhibited such traits at some point in our lives. I feel many such individuals either never realize they are in the wrong, or they fully believe that they are not. Unless they are willing to change, the best way to counter a narcissist is to cut them off, no exceptions.
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### Author:  [@Rashmi\_16](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/Rashmi_16)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 2:28pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/7 "2025-08-04T14:28:43Z")
It can hit deeply. It messes with your mind, your trust, and your selfworth.
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### Author:  [@dripsitapujari](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/dripsitapujari)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 2:40pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/8 "2025-08-04T14:40:26Z")
Specifically within our country, emotional control within relationships/a family often hides behind cultural traditions like âyou need to adjustâ, âyou need to respect the eldersâ, âyou can do it for love or this relationship or this marriageâ etc. This form of harm (just because it looks harmless on the surface) confuses many people, as they find difficulty while distinguishing between the line of care and the line of control. This is where one person slowly makes the other doubt their thoughts, feelings, and sometimes the entire memory. Several research studies have talked about how narcissism can hugely impact the brain areas connected with clarity and self-worth, even without loud fights or any visible signs. Narcissism is mostly disguised as strict parenting, a concern, love/affection and thatâs why it is so hard to recognize it. Many stay silent due to family pressure, fear of judgment, or most of the times not even knowing itâs a form of abuse. The wounds are invisible here, but the suffering is real and long-lasting. In todayâs time, this can happen to both men and women and the awareness related to it is very crucial. Thank you so much for sharing it with such clarity.
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### Author:  [@Abhishek\_12](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/Abhishek_12)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 2:49pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/9 "2025-08-04T14:49:45Z")
It is really informative thanks for the detail explanation
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 2:53pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/10 "2025-08-04T14:53:10Z")
Well explained, maâam. So many are suffering in silence. Especially in marriage or a relationship, if you end up with someone like this, no one really comes to save you. I personally know some of my friends who is suffering this. But all you hear from others is, âYou adjustâ or âWe all adjusted, so should youâŠâ"
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:07pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/11 "2025-08-04T15:07:57Z")
Yes, I completely agree. Sometimes, we do not even realize we were under their control, they often manipulate and confuse our minds.
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### Author:  [@dripsitapujari](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/dripsitapujari)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:12pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/12 "2025-08-04T15:12:21Z")
@drelu5 very true. Even I have seen so many people around suffering silently and being stuck in one place without knowing what to do and where to go for help. I have seen this in men as well, so itâs absolutely gender neutral. Specifically within our country, this is in a rising mode now. Iâm glad to see this post today. All kudos to you.
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### Author:  [@anujpatil](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/anujpatil)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:34pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/13 "2025-08-04T15:34:10Z")
Informative. Thanks for sharing.
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### Author:  [@Neha87](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/Neha87)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:39pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/14 "2025-08-04T15:39:39Z")
These type of people show themselves as a victim to others to gain sympathy. But behind the door they abuse their partner and still show their partner that they are doing everything for their family.
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:51pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/15 "2025-08-04T15:51:10Z")
@dripsitapujari Thank you! I truly wish more people could learn to completely detach from narcissists and focus on healing and building a better life for themselves.
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:51pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/16 "2025-08-04T15:51:45Z")
@Neha87 Exactly!!
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### Author:  [@dripsitapujari](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/dripsitapujari)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 3:56pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/17 "2025-08-04T15:56:15Z")
@Neha87 It is called âcovert narcissismâ. You pointed out the attribute perfectly. There are different categories of it based upon the characteristics exhibited.
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### Author:  [@Neha87](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/Neha87)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 4:04pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/18 "2025-08-04T16:04:05Z")
I know few people like this. They destroyed their partner life and showing whole world that they are victims. These type of people are everywhere.
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 4, 2025, 4:11pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/19 "2025-08-04T16:11:38Z")
@Neha87 Sadly yes!! đ
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### Author:  [@harshitha\_m](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/harshitha_m)
#### Post date: [August 5, 2025, 9:15am UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/20 "2025-08-05T09:15:45Z")
Narcissistic abuse is deeply damaging, not just emotionally, but mentally and even physically. Iâve seen someone close to me go through it⊠watching them doubt their worth, isolate themselves, and lose the spark they once had was heartbreaking. Healing takes time, patience, and so much self-love. We need more awareness and safe spaces for survivors to be heard without judgment.
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### Author:  [@drelu5](https://www.medboundhub.com/u/drelu5)
#### Post date: [August 5, 2025, 4:15pm UTC](https://www.medboundhub.com/t/the-silent-wounds-of-narcissistic-abuse/6647/21 "2025-08-05T16:15:00Z")
@harshitha_m It is truly heartbreaking when someone reaches a point where they begin to doubt their own self-worth.
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